Sunday, September 26, 2010

Different Ways To Express Your Feelings Without Saying A Word

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Here are some examples to help you express your love for your partner without having to say a word.


1. Send a box of chocolates (must be the fancy, expensive kind) with a romantic poem.

2. Send her a bouquet of red roses. Nothing says it more than a dozen roses.
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3. Send small, unexpected gifts to show that you care. Think about what your partner’s hobbies or interests are. The gift could be a book, a gadget or as simple as a packet of his favourite sweets.

4. Sing a few lines of your ‘special’ song into his voicemail.

5. Brag about your partner to friends while he is nearby. It’ll will make him feel like a million dollars.

6. Buy her jewellery. For some reason, women like rare, expensive rocks and metals. you also buy a gift which is not expensive n sooo simple n give her without a reason jus show ur evertime care. The more the merrier, but more often than not, just the thought of receiving jewellery from her man is enough to make her smile all day.

7. Never, never forget her birthday, your wedding anniversary or other special days. Put it in your diary, get someone to remind you, pay if you have to. Invest in a PDA or subscribe to a free online calendar like Yahoo Calendar.

8. Send her an online greeting card. There are many wondeully creative sites out there where you can send love cards for free. Do it today.

9. Take your partner on long walks and hold his hand.

10. Plan and cook a meal together.

11. Write a romantic love letter or love note. Some people find it easier to write down how they feel.

12. Listen to what she’s saying. Really listen. Active listening involves eye contact, repeating what the other person has said, mirroring their body movements, etc. Don’t try to give a solution to her problems, just provide a listening ear.

13. Write and sing her a love song, if you’re musically inclined.

14. Take her on a drive in a convertible and watch the sunset.

15. Take note of his best qualities and tell him how great he is. Tell the truth!

Take RISKS OR Not...???

To LOVE is to risk not being loved in return,
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental,
To reach outfox another is to risk involvement,
To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true slef,
To place your ideas,your dreams,before a crowd is to risk their loss,
To live is to risk dying,
To hope is to risk despair,
To try is to risk failure,

But RISKS MUST be taken, bcoz the greatest hazard in life is to risk
nothing

The person who risks nothing,does nothing,has nothing,and is nothing...

Saturday, September 25, 2010

16 Interesting Ways To Propose

1. (Walk up behind girl and point fingers shaped like gun into her back)
"You're under arrest!" (For what?) "For stealing my heart."

2. Hi, my name is Chance, Do I have one?

3. Are your legs tired?
( girl: Why?)
because you have been running through my mind all day!

4. "I lost my phone number, can I borrow yours?"

5. Can you give me directions to your heart? I've seemed to have lost myself in your eyes

6. (Take a look at the tag on the girls shirt, jacket, She would say,"What are doing")
respond, "Oh, just checking to see if you were made in Heaven."

7. (Pick up a flower and walk over to girl.)
"I was just showing this flower how beautiful you are."

8. Is it hot in here or is it just you?

9. Walk up to a guy and say: "Are you from heaven?"
"No" he answers. "Oh, I thought all the angels were from heaven"

10. I could be born in your eye, run down your cheek and die on your lips.

11. Did you know they changed the alphabet?
They put U and I together.

12. Are you lost?
Cause it's so strange to see an angel so far from heaven.

13. Do you believe in love at first sight, or do I have to walk by you again?

14. What's that in your eye? Oh...it's a sparkle.

15. Do you have a map? I just got lost in your eyes.

16. You can forget about going to heaven because it's sin to look that good.

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

22 Ways To Make Your Girl Friend Smile...!!!

1 . Tell her she is beautiful (not fine, or sexy)

2 . Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its
just for a second.

3 . Kiss her on the forehead.

4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.

5 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her
how much she means to you.

6 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually
mean the most.

7 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out
with.

8 . Write her notes. (she loves them)

9 . Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your
girlfriend.

10 . Play with her hair.

11 . Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with
her.

12 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.

13 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or
just tell her jokes.

14 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.

15 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.

16 . Give her piggyback rides.

17 . Bring her flowers

18 . Treat her the same around your friends as you
do when your alone.

19 . Look her in the eyes and smile.

20 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she
wants.

21 . Kiss her in the rain.

22 . If your in love with her . . . tell her

10 Romantic Ideas for Valentines...!!!





Create a Love Space:

A splendid idea on Valentine's Day is to open your heart to your sweet one and let know your feelings for her. An easy way to do this would be to create a "lovespace". If you are not already registered to myspace, you can sign up for a free account and within minutes you'll have a page dedicated to your sweetie. Keep it focused on romance with weekly love notes, romantic poems, and photos. You can even add a romantic love song that she loves very much in your 'lovespace'. That way she will get to listen to her favorite song whenever she visits the page! If you both are private persons and don't like to let the world know about your relationship, you can sure make the page private. That way you'll also feel free to open your heart and write about your inner feelings without a care.
Send an e-Card:
You may have doubts whether sending an e-card will not be an impersonal way of communicating with your special someone. But trust us, this is a great way to add a little romance to your sweet one's day. Browse the various free e-card sites, such as DeepestFeelings.com, for a gamut of romantic e-cards ranging from the funny 'n flippant to the poetic and passionate. It is even better if you can send a personalized message with your card and sites like DeepestFeelings lets you do that. Put in a bit of thought to your message and rather than ending it casually, think deep and write from the heart. It will work wonders with your lover. Imagine your sweet one's delight on finding a cute, romantic e-greeting with a romantic message in his/her inbox on Valentine's Day. Doesn't that seem great?
Make a Video:
Another splendid idea is to make a short video declaring your love for your honey. If you have a camera phone or a webcam at your disposal, you can easily make a video and upload it online in sites like YouTube for free. You can then send a link via email to him/her to check out your valentine video! If you don't prefer a public declaration of your love, you can keep it personal and have a private viewing of your video with your sweetheart who'll surely love the idea.

A nice tip is to use windows movie maker in your video-making.
Buy roses for your love:
This one is specially for men. Buy a dozen roses for your sweetie, hide them in different spots of a place like a park or a mall. Invite her and hide in some nearby spot from where you can watch the proceedings. Arrange a person to hand over a rose to her as soon as she arrives. Attach a note to it informing her where to find the next rose. This should be the case with each rose and the last one should lead her to you waiting with a bouquet of flowers. You should take the authorities into confidence for this plan to work out smoothly. Thereupon, treat her to a sumptuous lunch/dinner.
Candle-lit dinner:
Treat your honey to a romantic dinner by candle-light. That doesn't mean you don't have to take your sweetheart to a posh restaurant and spend a lotta bucks. Rather, you can arrange your own candle-lit dinner at home. Cook up a splendid dinner together. Even a simple pasta would work; buy dessert from the bakery in the grocery store. Set the table; create a romantic atmosphere with candles. sweet snacks and wine. Have soft romantic music playing in the background, and dim the lights so that it's mostly the candles lighting the room. Then dress up and "attend" the dinner walking up to the table hand in hand with your love. You'll be amazed how much more fun it gives to have a candle-lit dinner at home. Once dinner is over, dance slowly to your song. Then snuggle as you watch a romantic flick together.
Prepare a dessert:
This one is specially for the ladies. Invite your honey and treat him to a dessert dish. Find out about the favorite dessert of your partner and prepare it yourself on Valentine's Day. Even if it doesn't turn perfect and your cooking skills don't prove amazing, he'll pleasantly surprised and love you for your serious attempt.
Balloons in the car:
Sneak into your sweet one's car while he/she is busy at work and fill it with roses and balloons upto the roof. Also leave a note inside telling how much your sweetheart means to you. It will amaze and touch your love to no less measure.
Walk on the beach:
Take a ride to a secluded beach at sunset and park your car nearby. Slip your hand into your partner's and take a stroll along the beach bare foot, watching the sunset together. It will be better to stay awhile after the sunset and enjoy the sight and sound of the waves crashing into the shore, as the water covers your feet. Look up at the starry sky and feel the magic of the universe.
Have a beach-dinner:
If you can arrange it, treat your love to a candlelit dinner under the stars, preferably to the accompaniment of some music playing off somewhere in the background. You can arrange it all near a lake or pond to make the ambience even more romantic. To top it all, you can rent a small boat and row it after dinner to go out to the middle of a lake and watch the stars.
Love-letter:
Believe it or not, writing love letters is still as cool. Yes, the world may have changed and e-mails and text messages may be the order of the day, but a passionate letter of love still posseses that eternal charm and out-of-the-world romanticism which many would die for. So put your pen to paper and pour your feelings out for the love of your life. Say in simple words what your sweetheart means to you, and how your life has changed since his/her arrival. Then hide it in some spot where your sweet one is likely to lay his/her hand soon. Don't worry if you're not too good with words, your sweetheart will surely appreciate your gesture. Your effort will culminate into a moment which both of you'll treasure forever, trus

Sunday, September 19, 2010

100 Days Together - A True Story

100 Days Together - A True Story

Peter and Tina are sitting in the park doing nothing, but just gazing
into the sky, while all their friends are having fun with their beloved
half.

Tina: I'm so bored. Just wish I have a boyfriend now to spend time
with.

Peter: I guess we're the only leftovers. We're the only person who
isn't with a date now. (both sigh n silence for a while)


Tina: I think I have a good idea. Lets play a game
Peter: Eh? What game?

Tina: Eem..It's quite simple. You be my boyfriend for 100 days and I'll
be your girlfriend for 100 days. what do you think?

Peter: Oookay..Anyway I don't have any plan for the next few months.

Tina: You sound like you aren't looking forward to it at all. Cheer up.
Today will be our first day and our first date. Where should we go?

Peter: What about a movie? I heard that there is a really great movie
in theater now.


Tina: Seems like I don't ! have any better idea than this. Lets move.
(went to watch their movies and sent each other home)

Day 2:
Peter and Tina went to a concert together, and Peter bought Tina a
keychain with a star.

Day 3:
They went shopping together for a friend's birthday present. Share an
ice-cream together and hugged each other for the first time.

Day 7:
Peter drove Tina up onto a mountain and they watch the sunset together.
When the night came and the moon glowed, they said sat on the grass
gazing at the stars together. A meteor passed by. Tina mumbled something.

Day 25:
Spend time at a themepark and got onto rollercoasters, and ate hotdogs
and cotton candy. Peter and Tina got in the haunted house and Tina
grabbed someone's hand instead of Peter's hand by accident. They laughed
together for a while.

Day 67:
They drove pass a circus and decided to get in to watch the show. The
midget asked Tina to play a part as hi! s assistant in the magic show.
Went around to see other entertainments around after the show. Came to a
fortune teller and she just said "Treasure every moment from now on" and
a tear rolled down the fortune teller's cheek.

Day 84:
Tina suggested that they go to the beach. The beach wasn't so crowded
that day. They have their first kiss with each other just as the sun is
setting.

Day 99:
They decided to have a simple day and is deciding to have a walk around
the city. They sits down onto a bench.


1:23 pm
Tina: I'm thirsty. Lets rest for a while first.

Peter: Wait here while I go buy some drinks. What would you like?

Tina: Eem...Apple juice will be just fine.


1:43 pm
Tina waiting for about 20 minutes and Peter havent return. Then someone
walked up to her.

Stranger: Is your name Tina?

Tina: Yes, and may I help you?

Stranger: Justnow down there on the street a drunk drive! r has crashed
into a guy. I think its your friend.

Tina ran over to the spot with the stranger and sees Peter lying on the
floor with blood over his face and her apple juice still in his hands.
The ambulance came and she went to the hospital with Peter.
Tina sat outside the emergency room for five and a half hours. The
doctor came out, and he sigh.


11:51 pm
Doctor: I'm sorry, but we did the best we could. He is still breathing
now but God would take him away from us very soon. We found this letter
inside his pocket.

The doctor hands over the letter to Tina and she goes into the room to
see Peter. He look weak but peaceful. Tina read the letter and then she
burst into tears. Here is what the letter said.

Tina, our 100 days is almost over. I had fun with you during all these
days. Although you may be greedy sometimes and less thoughtful, but
these all brought happiness into my life. I have realize that you ! are a
really cute girl and blamed myself for never taken the time to knowing
that. I have nothing much to ask for, but I just wish that we can extend
the day. I want to be your boyfriend
forever and wish that you can be beside me all the time. Tina, I love
you.

11:58
Tina: (sobbing) Peter. Did you know what was the wish I made on the
night there was a meteor. I asked God to let us last forever. We were
suppose to last 100 days so Peter! You can't leave me! I LOVE YOU, but can
you come back to me now? I love you Peter. I LOVE YOU.

As the clock struck twelve, Peter's heart stopped beating. It was 100
days.

NOTE*
Tell the guy or girl that you love them before its too late. You never
know whats going to happen tomorrow. You never know who will be leaving
you and never return.

Monday, September 13, 2010

Top 20 Places To Propose !


20. Florence, Italy


A loved one. A room. A view. A window seat for two. Watch the sun go down over a glass of Chianti and declaring undying love seems the only possible course. Surrounded by wooded, rolling, emerald-green hills, with a Unesco-listed medieval centre, the drop-dead-gorgeous city of Florence straddles the Arno River. It looks like it has sprung from a medieval illuminated manuscript. Propose here, and you'll be up the aisle before you know it.


19. Las Vegas, Nevada, USA


The beauty of proposing in Las Vegas is that you won't have to wait out a long engagement. Get yourself down to a quick-fix chapel and you can get hitched right there and then, following in star-studded footsteps – from Elvis and Priscilla Presley to Bruce Willis and Demi Moore. And fingers crossed, marriage will last longer than other Vegas lovebirds Pamela Anderson and Rick Soloman (six months) or Britney Spears and Jason Allen Alexander (55 hours).


18. Charles Bridge, Prague, Czech Republic


Unless you thrive on an audience, night time is proposal o'clock on Charles Bridge in Prague. During the day it's mobbed by human traffic. But once the crowds have ebbed away, the bridge reveals its beauty. Lined by dramatic statues and surrounded by a fairytale cityscape, it's a fantastical place to go down on one knee.


17. Coronet Peak, New Zealand


Any mountaintop will do, really. But Coronet Peak would have to be among the most sumptuous mountainscapes around. There's something supremely elemental about being able to see for miles. And if you've made it to the top together and still want to get married, obviously you're doing the right thing.


16. Iceland


Hot mud, active volcanoes, steamy geysers and lava deserts: all memorable stuff. So why not propose somewhere in Iceland's otherworldly landscape? Pop the question amid steam and bubbles at the natural geothermal seawater Blue Lagoon. Or travel somewhere remote to watch the natural fireworks of the Northern Lights and produce some sparks of your own.


15. Alhambra, Granada, Spain


The seat of the Muslim rulers of Granada, built in the 14th century, the 'red palace' is Spain's most exquisite example of Moorish architecture. It forms a delicate complex of courtyards, fountains and carving more intricate than lace. Here you'll find many shady, hidden corners: perfect hideaways for the essential question.


14. A felucca, the Nile, Egypt



Arguably the longest river in the world, the Nile is fringed by sand dunes and palm trees, lagoons and lakes. The most romantic way to see it is on a felucca, a traditional white-sailed wooden boat. Pop the question on the shore, during a starlit overnight stop, under a big African moon.


13. Taj Mahal, India



It might be a tomb, but the Taj Mahal is also the world's most spectacular monument to love. Shah Jahan had it built to commemorate his beloved wife (he planned a mirror-image building for himself in black marble). The shimmering white structure, reflected in ornamental pools, is beautiful at any time of day. But sunrise and sunset are the best moments to open your heart.


12. The Maldives



White sand caresses your skin like velvet. Clear sea invites you to take the plunge. Pristine tropical palm-fringed islands and turquoise lagoons lie all around. There are few places more romantic than this archipelago in the Indian Ocean. Once you've popped the question, however, you will be faced with a problem. How can we top this for the honeymoon?


11. Diving



A novel place to ask for somebody's hand is underwater (obviously it'll help if you're both divers). You'll have to write the question on a slate, and might have to make do with a thumbs up/down for an answer, but there's something ineffably romantic about being under the sea surrounded by flitting fish, and any blushes will be well disguised.


10. In a gondola, Venice, Italy



Picture yourself swishing through a Venetian canal in an elegant gondola, a glass of bubbly in your hand. Then ask yourself – is it possible to refuse? But if proposing on water doesn't float your boat, wander through the stage-set-like wonder of Venice's streets to Harry's Bar. Here ask the staff to bring the ring in a glass of champagne. Cheesy perhaps, but this is quality cheese.


9. Niagara Falls, Ontario, Canada



Apparently all that rushing, pounding water produces negative ions that act as an aphrodisiac. Around 50,000 couples get married at Niagara every year, so there must be something in it. You can stand behind the falls, but this might drown out your question. Don't, whatever you do, take a boat. It'll just add to the stress. Speak from the heart and you won't be upstaged, but make sure you stand a good, safe distance – and don't have to shout.


8. In a hot air balloon


The roar of the fire, the rise of the balloon, then silence. You float across the landscape. This is as close to being a cloud as it gets. High above the ground, watching shadows stretch across the ground, a hot-air balloon for two is an eternally memorable place to do the deed. As long as having a balloon pilot listen in doesn't put you off your lines.


7. Empire State Building, New York, USA



Where could be finer to propose than 320m above the rush and hustle of NYC? Follow in the footsteps of Deborah Kerr and Cary Grant, who met here annually in An Affair to Remember and Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan in Sleepless in Seattle. It's open until 2am, but unless you need a night out on the tiles to build up courage first, the best time to aim for is sunset, ideally on Valentine's Day when the tower is lit up in red.


6. Rockefeller Ice Rink, New York, USA


For romance with built-in glide, propose at the Rockefeller Ice Rink. If you buy the Engagement on Ice package for US$200, the staff will clear the ice of everyone but yourself and your partner, play your song over the tannoy and supply champagne. Get down on one knee to cheers from the crowd. Then you can skate around for your victory lap. It's best to go for this one if you're really sure it's going to be a yes.


5. Above the rooftops, Rome, Italy


Rome put the 'Rom' in Romantic, and there's a plethora of magical places to declare your love in the city. Steer clear of the Trevi Fountain, as the mass of happy-snapping tourists doesn't lend itself easily to romance. Head for the hills instead. The summits of Pincio, Giancolo or Aventino have heartrendingly beautiful views across the city's domes and spires.


4. Sahara Desert, Morocco


A night under the stars in the Moroccan desert is an unforgettable experience. And a proposal in this setting? Well, it could be one of the most romantic nights of your life. A long journey home if he or she says no though.


3. London Eye, London, UK


If you can get over the fact that the package is called 'Cupid's Capsule', this could be a clincher. The London Eye is the world's tallest observation wheel, and you can book a romantic package pod for two (time it for sunset), complete with fast-track boarding, champagne and champagne truffles for 299.


2. Grand Canyon, Colorado, USA


There's nothing like a bit of awesome natural beauty to act as a backdrop for your bended knee. Looking out over this magnificent, humbling sight, 277 miles long and over a mile deep, formed over six million years by the Colorado river – it has got to be a yes.


1. Eiffel Tower, Paris, France



The most iconic building in the city of love, the Eiffel Tower sees lots of lovers go for make or break at the top. If it's good enough for Tom Cruise (it's where he proposed to Katie Holmes), it's good enough for us. Rod Stewart also asked Penny Lancaster here, and he's a man who's had some practice – she's his third wife. Plus, if you're still together after all the queuing, then you're probably going to stay the distance.